Friday, 28 March 2014

Words of Wisdom

I was finished work today at 1.30.  

The last hour of work I was traveling to VGH--dropping stuffs off to the Research office.  Then I went over to the Government Surplus Store to find an office divider.  I didn't find one, but man, they have amazing things there!

I came home did some banking, cleaned the kitchen, which is normal.  To make dinner I have to clean the kitchen most days.  Since Kent has been off work I haven't had to--today he was busy and couldn't do it.

Then, I set to cleaning the house.

In round about 1987, Mary Townsend (Prince George, BC) gave me the best advice. Ever.

She said the fastest way to clean your house is to take off your glasses and turn out the lights.

So, I cleaned my house in "Mary Townsend Way".  I'd like to say that I am done for housework this weekend, but the reality is--I am not done.  For today, I am done.

Kent and I are now chillin having had dinner.  Relaxing.  Life is good and it's Friday.

:)


Riding along in my automobile.....Thank you Chuck Berry

Got the music in your head?  Good.  Keep it there.

I'm tapping my toes while I type.

Yes, I am that coordinated, thank you for asking.

I've parked my car for the most part here in Victoria.  Generally speaking.  For work, I have been taking the bus, soon, I'll be getting LaRombashaniqua out, but for now, the bus is it.

There are advantages to the bus, I don't have to pay for parking.  I don't have to drive around like a crazy person to find parking...or leave for work stupidly early to find parking.  There's less money spent on gas, the wear and tear to the vehicle.  Quite frankly, I am ok leaving Trudy (the car) at home.

Disadvantages to the bus: people.  If I could ride with dogs, that would make me much happier.

This week I had a couple adventures in commuting.

One day this week, I had an appointment that was a brisk 15 minute walk from the hospital.  So, I laced up my sneakers and walked (very briskly) to get there on time.  My intention was to walk home. I googled it.  It would take an hour.

After my appointment it was one of those gloriously amazing Victoria days, blossoms out, it was lightly raining (like in a great romantic movie.....big drops....), the sun was shining.  I popped up my umbrella and geared up for my walk home.  It was fragrant, it was beautiful.  I loved every single minute of the 68 minutes it took me to walk home.

The interesting thing, I was amazed at what I miss when I am riding along in my car or on the bus.

For example, there is a VERY cute little red brick house on the way home that was built in 1890.

There were several "painted lady" style houses with really old buzzers as a door bell--someone rung one when I was walking by.  I didn't just help myself to the buzzers.....

And near our house there is a statue of a man panning for gold.

Who knew!

I think I should walk more often....except I got home from work after 7 pm.

I did have to walk through a pretty sketchy area of town to get home, and I didn't realize it until I walked through it--how tough it actually is.

I passed 2 prostitutes, setting up for the night, talking about how their pimp went through all their stuff.  Not looking for anything in particular, but just looking.

I passed a couple drug deals.

I passed some people at the bus stop looking just weary.

Then, I walked over this gorgeous stone bridge, as I was approaching the half way point I see this guy in the distance -- he is holding an IPhone and is shooting things.  Trees, banners, more trees.  As I get closer I can hear it's actually a laser.  As he got onto the bridge, he held the phone to his leg and looked at his feet, trying not to make eye contact with me.  Then, as he went passed me, I heard his Iphone go off again, (his mouth made the sound, don't go looking for the laser app.)  I turned and looked over my shoulder to see that he has SHOT me!  I quickly clutched my chest and said, You got me!  He laughed.  Made my night.

The other commuting story this week comes courtesy of the bus.

Thursday morning I raced out the door to the bus, having missed the first one....the next one came minutes later (Thank you Victoria Bus Service....)

He was speeding towards me so I waved him down and he stopped.  He told me I had to stand near the curb or he wouldn't stop.  I was at the curb.

He stopped away from the curb--so I walked off the curb realizing my pencil skirt was too narrow to allow me to get from the street UP into the bus.  It took me a couple attempts, but had to hike up my skirt to get into the bus

Sigh.

Then, he shut the door on me while I was half way in.  I was in--my briefcase was not.

Sigh.

I sat down and opened my e-reader, chillin time.  He then missed dropping off people at 2 stops.  He said the bell didn't go off.  The green light on his dashboard was lit, as was the "stop requested" light.  So, he stopped the bus, asked us to pull the string, we all heard the "ping", watched the lights go on, he said, Oh it IS working.

Then someone requested the next stop, and he didn't stop.

When we arrived at the hospital, 4 of my VIHA coworkers get up to get off the bus and guess who didn't park close the curb.  Yup, MY bus driver. So, as I am struggling to get out of the bus. HE SHUT THE DOOR ON ME! I ended up hitting the door with my arm--now I have a bruise.

I decided at that point to complain, so I sent my little email and got a voice mail from the transit authority.  I wasn't the only one to complain--so what do you learn from this?  Pencil skirts are not good for commuting and get out and get the earlier bus...that driver is the bees knees.

Monday, 17 March 2014

Hiatus Over

I've experienced a serious blogging hiatus.

I'm baaaaack.

I will catch you up over the past number of months, but first, this week.

This week, my handsome son Max turned 20.  2. 0.  How did this happen?

I am incredibly proud of him, he is a compassionate, very hard working, incredibly intelligent man.  I just don't know if there are enough words to properly express how much I love and admire him.


Max, 20 years old


Guitar making Max

 Melissa and Jonathan's Wedding

Max's 19th Birthday


This week was also my mother's (Pat) birthday.  I think she's 70 this year, but I don't know for sure.  I have a girlfriend who describes Pat as the egg donor, Jean as my Mom.  Having said this I think you understand there is no relationship between my mother (Pat) and I.

We've tried, it failed.  Over and over and over again.  My last attempt was a number of years ago, I called my sister to wish her a happy birthday and it just got ugly.  They ended up dragging my Grandma into it all.  Ug.Ly.

So, I honour her day by saying a prayer for her, and then it passes.

The other big thing in this week was my oncology appointment.  It seems all is well, I am getting better and better every day/week.  My symptoms are getting less frequent.

And I am getting another oncologist.  If you are keeping track--this next appointment will be my 4th oncologist since this all started.

I think a study should be done by the BCCA of the fall out and stress for patients when they don't see the same person consistently.

Rant. Over.

I am thankful I am healthy, I have healthy kids, Kent is healthy and we are doing ok.



Onto the next post.